All The Things No One Tells You About Dating As An AdultWhen we are young, we often don’t see many examples of single people in their 30s, 40s, and beyond who are actively trying to date. We are…Dec 15, 20201Dec 15, 20201
The Weight of the World: Reflections on Dating in the Time of Covid“It just adds such a weight to everything related to dating. You not only have to have the regular levels of trust that someone isn’t…Aug 15, 20201Aug 15, 20201
Stop Calling Women IntimidatingOver the last year, much of my free time has been spent writing my dissertation, defending my dissertation, and celebrating being done…Oct 11, 20183Oct 11, 20183
On Two Years of AmbivalenceI check my mail this morning, hurriedly flipping through the junk envelopes in search of something I am expecting. I stop abruptly on one…Jul 11, 2018Jul 11, 2018
Single Fat Women…We’re Just Like Other Single Women, but LargerDisclaimer: This post is inspired by a recent twitter issue where a man went on 3 dates with a fat women he knew he wasn’t attracted to…Jun 17, 2018Jun 17, 2018
A Love Letter To My Internet FriendsLast year, I wrote about how a year on dating apps brought me more friends than dates. I talked about how I’d met all these people through…Apr 24, 2018Apr 24, 2018
In Defense of Dating AppsLately I’ve seen a lot of negativity on Twitter surrounding the use of dating apps. Don’t get me wrong, dating apps have a lot of problems…Mar 26, 2018Mar 26, 2018
SJW, Reporting for Warrior DutiesIf you consider yourself a liberal and have ever talked about politics online, you have probably at some point been referred to as a Social…Feb 11, 2018Feb 11, 2018
How To Have A Conversation On A Dating App (Hint: It’s Not That Hard)I never realized how bad people are at conversation until I started using dating apps. I have always considered myself pretty decent at…Dec 13, 201726Dec 13, 201726
Relationships Are Hard (And Anyone Who Tells You Otherwise Is Lying To You)Lately, I’ve been seeing a very concerning trend on social media, particularly Twitter. A seemingly increasing number of single people…Nov 26, 20171Nov 26, 20171